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“I love the Cutie Heart for its obviously adorable shape [and] travel-friendly compact size,” says Rowntree. Like many other air-pulse toys out there , you’ve probably seen a few of these before—but this one is just a bit more discreet than other alternatives. The suction feels amazing, with twelve different intensity settings and waterproof capabilities. From a discreet vibrator disguised as a cute little ice cream cone to pint-sized suction toys, these discreet sex toys will keep your sex life your business (while still providing plenty of pleasure, naturally).

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Time and time again, I will toss a breezy, adjustable C-ring like this into my bag or back pocket. It’s discreet, and works for pretty much all penis sizes (the max adjustment level is 8.5 inches), and when you’re done using it, the release toggle is just a push away. Listen, I want to do my part for the environment, but I also want to get off—and now I can do both. The Gaia Eco surprised me with its power and design—it’s not just a gimmick, it works. Plus, I feel slightly better about my life choices knowing my vibrator isn’t contributing to landfills. The PlusOne Dual Vibrating Massager delivers pleasure without the hefty price tag.

“Honestly, the quietest toys are going to be marketed as quiet,” says Gigi Engle, a certified sex and relationship psychotherapist and resident intimacy expert at dating app, 3Fun. “With that being said, you’re going to want to look for something smaller that has a smaller motor.” Engle explains that the smaller the motor, the quieter the toy. “You’re going to have better luck with palm, finger, and bullet vibrators. These toys are basically silent vibrator, which can be a great choice,” Engle adds. Wands are super versatile, with long handles and large heads that make them easy to use in different solo or partnered positions.

Sam, the founder of a spicy audio membership club called Best Kept Secret, recommends the TENGA GEO Coral for men (or folks with penises) who want to be discreet and still have a good time. It has an oversized, flat tip that sits snugly against your G-spot, and unlike other internal vibrators, this one isn’t so big that you’ll have a hard time getting it in or out. If using lube, I do suggest a water-based lubricant to ensure everything slips in smoothly.

If noisy buzzing takes you out of the moment, consider this cock ring and its amazingly quiet (but not weak) vibrations. Its shimmies and shakes have a low, rumbly timbre for deep, satisfying sensations, and its matte silicone is super soft against skin, especially when lubed. This cock ring doesn’t have a lot of bells and whistles, but that’s the point if you’d rather hear moans than vibes.

“It gave me the most intense orgasms I’ve ever experienced,” said one satisfied tester. Some brands may note that their toys are made from “body-safe” materials. All medical-grade silicone is also body-safe—but the reverse isn’t always true. To find the best wand vibrators, SELF contributors pulled on their combined nearly three decades of experience testing and reviewing sex toys. We also consulted 10 experts and asked them to share their tried-and-true recommendations. The final list includes high-quality, top-rated wand vibrators across different sizes, price points, and intensities.

The Satisfyer Pro 2, however, is so well-loved that I couldn’t exclude it from this list because of my own biases. Its most unique attribute is that it uses oscillation technology instead of standard vibration to provide stimulation to a man’s frenulum (the seam on the underside of the penis that is extremely sensitive to touch). There are five oscillation patterns that can be adjusted for intensity. Getting more comfortable and in tune with your sexual health can be intimidating as is going through the process of buying a sex toy and putting it to good use. However, Viv Conway, co-founder of Girls Get Off, says it’s completely normal to feel nervous or embarrassed about using a vibrator. “The Lovehoney Magic Bullet 10 Function Bullet Vibrator is an excellent budget-friendly option for those looking for a versatile, beginner-friendly, and discreet toy.

It works via both Bluetooth and Wi-Fi, making it a good choice for both close and long-range play. You’ve heard that “moderation is key” and “there can be too much of a good thing,” right? However, we just wanted to make sure, because self-love is a thing, and vibrators can actually help women who are experiencing sexual dysfunction.